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The Girl with the Curly Hair - Aspergers and Me

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Alis Rowe
ISBN-13: 978-0956269324

We were recommended the Girl with the Curly Hair soon after our eldest son was diagnosed with Aspergers. I read about 70% of it while I was at Bloodstock this year. It was very easy to read and immediately gave me insight into some of the things that our son was feeling and why.

Alis Rowe is clearly an extreme case and it was also reassuring to know our son isn’t. I am very grateful to her for writing this book. It makes it clear that people with Aspergers sometimes struggle to understand how people without Aspergers feel and why they behave in the way that they do. It also made me realise people with Aspergers who may seem very selfish, are not really.

In Alis’ case there is a clear understanding and acceptance that people without Aspergers feel differently to her. I am hoping that as our son (11) matures he will come to understand the world around him as well as Alis does.

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  1. Alis Rowe7 March 2015 at 17:10

    Thanks for this review. Yes, my experience of the world is very extreme. Glad you enjoyed my book and all the best for you and your son.

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